Monday, September 23, 2013

Lately (a catch up..)

You know it's time to write a blog post when people start emailing to see if you are alright (thank you!).
I AM! I'm actually pretty good! I've just been in a bit of a funny headspace for blogging.
Shall I catch you up a little bit?

We've all been battling the common Winter ailments - coughs and snuffles, a minor dose of the Winter Blues... head lice. Haha. Maybe not so Wintry, but definitely an ailment. Those things are NASTY!
We have come through it all, though. One of us with a bald head, and one who still has a tinge of green in her nostrils, but we're all ready for Spring now.

I've been sewing. I've filled lots of custom orders, made some readymades, and have plenty more on the go. I'm still struggling to find that balance, and things are taking much longer than I would like them to.. but I'm getting there.

We've been doing a lot of assessing of our lives the past few weeks, setting some goals, figuring things out. One of the major things to come from this, for me, is that we decided to put Mollie in daycare for a few hours a week - so that I can spend some more time sewing, put a little more energy and effort into my little business/hobby.
It has been a time of conflicted feelings for me.
While I wish I was the type of person who could thrive from being around my kids 24/7, I'm not. I feel ridiculous amounts of guilt about that. I also feel like putting Mol in care, even for 6 hours a week, is making her grow up even faster - not what I want at all! But the little miss is such a social creature, she gets incredibly bored and frustrated stuck at home with me all day and I, in turn, end up frustrated with her. Not ideal! So yeah, she needs the social time and I need the sewing time (read: the money..) Ugh. I know I don't need to justify any of this to you (you, kind blog reader, wouldn't judge me, aye?) but I'm kind of more still justifying it to myself!

The past few weeks, we've been doing bits and pieces around the house. Windowsills got painted, kitchen light got fixed, trees and plants got planted, vegies went into the ground..
It's starting to really feel like home, despite there still being a long list of things we'd like to do. Guessing that list never really gets shorter!
I think the next things on our short term list are hanging a pinboard for the kids artwork, hanging more pictures on the walls, and painting that horrible blue strip around the bottom of the house!
Midterm plans include more garden/vege beds and replacing the gas fire with a woodburner.

I'm not sure if I've even mentioned it here, but I've been on a bit of a weightloss/healthy eating mission. I completed the C25K program on the crosstrainer, and have joined WeightWatchers.
I'm struggling to stay on the wagon a bit this week (highs and lows!) but I've lost just under 10kg so far (in 10 weeks) and am excited to be starting to see the difference in my energy levels and how my clothes fit.
This Catherine Campbell print was a small reward I nabbed for myself. I've been trying to treat myself to a little something every 2kg loss : )

I think that's about as much of a recap as I can manage. Otherwise, we've just been bumbling along like usual. Mostly, anyway.

What have you been up to?


  1. At the start I felt very guilty for having Sam in daycare, but seeing how much he loved being around the other kids changed my mind. Once I finish the PhD he'll spend less time in daycare, but it has let me do those things that nourish who I am, which makes me a better mother. I hope it works that way for you too. Congrats on taking care of yourself and your family so well!

  2. Mol will love it. Neko started at a porse provider today, doing the same 6h per week. He's social too, infact he's often asking for other kids when we're just the two of us at home, he's bored and frustrated. As am I, having to constantly entertain him or listen to him grizzle and tug at me. It will be awesome amd for filling for you both.

  3. A bit under 10kg's. That is amazing. Well done it's far from easy. I bet you are enjoying the new you.

  4. No judgement here! I did the same thing :) Though now we've moved north, my little girl doesn't have a daycare near enough, the closest kindy is in the next town and I would end up spending most of my time ferrying her back and forth. If there was one closer, she would definitely be in there for a couple of days a week. She needs it and so do I :))

  5. Oh I so know how you feel, right now I am wondering if we should put the kids into school, because I am considering setting up a photography business, but I feel so guilty, like I'm letting them down as a mother!!! It sooooo hard isn't it. The things they didn't tell you about being a mother. And 10 kgs !! that's awesome, your inspiring, it's not easy to lose weight, I've been trying to lose 3 kgs for 3 months and so far have put on 2 kgs !!!

  6. 10kg, that is awesome! I seem to have found every kilo you've lost though. And I totally get you on the daycare thing. I wish Holly was old enough for me to feel okay about putting her in daycare for a few hours a week. Mollie will thrive with new kids to play with and you'll be a better mum when you get that time to sew.

  7. Well done you! on all fronts :) parting with the little ones is such a tricky thing :s